Further Details

RSVP

Please click on the RSVP link to let us know if you are able to attend our wedding. Type in your email address and click Load Invite to access the form. You can edit your response at any time by reloading the invite with your email once again. We would appreciate if you can get back to us by 1^st March 2025.

Food & Drink

We will update this section once we have finalised our menu choices. In the meantime, if you have any specific dietary requirements, please mention them in the RSVP form.

Dress Code

This is, of course, a formal event so don your best winter black tie. The Scottish weather is unpredictable but one thing we can be sure of is that it will be chilly in December. Borthwick Castle itself will be warmed by a great many fireplaces but for travelling to and from the venue, make sure to bring something warm.

A Note on Gifts

We are very grateful to all of you for coming to our wedding, especially to those who will be travelling from afar. Please do not feel obliged to get us anything but if you do wish to buy us a little something, you can contribute to our honeymoon fund. We will let you know when we update this page with more details on how to do this.

Guests & Little Ones

Borthwick Castle has a very strict limit on numbers so unfortunately only those listed on the email invitation can attend. As much as we would love to celebrate with our wider network of family, friends and their children, we are bound by the venue's health and safety regulations. We appreciate your understanding.